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Meet Single Women By William Allen | 23-08-2007 http://www.getmyarticles.com

If you want to meet single women, first you must know that nightclubs ARE very difficult venues. Unless you're specially suited to the party-style nightlife, these venues will be a bit daunting and it will be hard to meet single women. And even if you are predisposed to this type of pick up, you will still have to deal with lots of competition from other men.

That said, it's not impossible to meet single women in nightclubs. But it will require you to be a little more outgoing and aggressive than other venues if you want to meet single women.

First off, when I'm in a club and I am looking to meet single women, I tend to like to hang out in open-air areas where I can talk to other people easier. Patios and right outside the club can be good for this. Most clubs will have some form of outdoor area where you can hang out--especially places like New York and Los Angeles where you're not allowed to smoke inside.

The dance floor can also be quite effective if you're looking to meet single women. If you like to dance, go out there and try dancing with the single women who are dancing by themselves. If they're not into it, move on. If they are, it's PLAY time!

Also, keep in mind the time at which you're going to the club to meet single women. Usually, the later it gets, the easier it is to meet single women (this is because as it gets later, people are more pre-disposed to "hook up" due to alcohal, desperation, boredom, etc.).

Second, to meet single women on the street takes a bit of finesse. In America, people do tend to be a bit more private than in other parts of the world when it comes to meeting single women. My best advice in this respect is to actually follow the girl for a bit and see where she's going. If she stops off at a coffee shop or a bus stop, or whatever, THAT is the time to approach her! This is the best time to meet single women. If it looks like she's going someplace you can't follow her into (like her home/dorm, for instance) then you'll have to take the chance and try approaching her cold. But make it a quick approach and include a time constraint ("I know you're on your way somewhere, this'll only take a second..."), get her number as quick as you can, then move on (a great way to meet single women!)

Finally, when it comes to the "boyfriend" thing, that's a matter of personal taste. Some guys don't want to mess with that, others don't care. The thing is, most women aren't THAT committed to their boyfriends, so it's not as big of an obstacle as you might think.

The important thing to do in this situation is to try and "read" the woman. Sometimes, a girl will tell you she has a boyfriend when she really doesn't because she wants to politely reject you (and sometimes she really does have a boyfriend and wants to stay faithful to him). If this is the case, you have to look at the signals she's giving you to see if she's actually into you or not.

If a woman does like you and IS in fact into you, she will usually with-hold the fact that she has a boyfriend. And if she does bring it up, she wants you to take the lead and "sweep her off her feet" so she won't have to feel guilty about cheating on him. So when that's the case, it's time to pump up the agressiveness on you're pick up.

If you want to learn how to meet and read single woman, check out Joeseph Matthew's book The Art Of Approaching, he devotes an entire section of my book to it. He goes into great detail on how to spot the subtle signs a single woman gives off to let you know she's interested in you, and how to use this to your advantage and meet single women!